Are you curious about kink/BDSM and how it can be used as a pathway to personal growth. Let me lead you into your desires to integrate Kink and BDSM into your life
The words “kink” and “BDSM” can bring to mind thoughts of Gothic dungeon scenes from a Marquis de Sade novel… or Tom of Finland’s leather scenes with uber-buff queer men. It can be all these things and much, much more.
From my perspective, kink can encompass everything!
It’s about teasing, playing, controlling, and being controlled. It’s about exploring what turns you on and exploring your edges. It’s about sensation, boundaries, passion, and power.
Kink is when your erotic fantasies come to life. And it’s about learning the physical techniques and emotional skills to explore this realm safely and with confidence.
Individual Sessions
I offer very personalized and individualized private sessions for anyone interested in learning how Kink and BDSM can be integrated into their life. This can look like such a wide range of possibilities from simply learning the technical skills of rope bondage to going deep into different parts of yourself, like owning your inner dom in and out of the bedroom. This can look like working one on one with me or bringing in one of my coaching assistants to work with you together. We can work together ranging anywhere from an hour by phone/video chat or in person, to a weekend immersion.
Though I personalize/individualize every session here is a menu of possible options during a session with me:
Having a safe space to talk about your (possibly taboo) desires/fantasies and how to get them met in a healthy/responsible way.
Private rope bondage lesson
Learning/experiencing female/g-spot ejaculation.
Hands on experience to learn skills (see below) as a dominant and the emotional work to build the confidence to step into that role.
Hands on experience of being dominated to explore your submissive side in a safe and contained way.
Creating a scene to use kink/BDSM as a tool for personal growth/self discovery
Possible skills to learn/experience:
Rope bondage
Rough play/physical manipulation
Biting/using teeth
Hair pulling (done right)
Spanking and other impact play
Choking/breath play (done safely)
Obedience training
Orgasm control
All the toys
Dirty talk and fantasy/role play
And most importantly: clear communication, negotiation, aftercare and debriefing scene/play time.
Couples Sessions
I offer very personalized/individualized private sessions for couples interested in learning how Kink and BDSM can be integrated into their relationship. This can look like such a wide range of possibilities from simply learning the technical skills of rope bondage to going deep into parts of yourself that you’re not letting come out in your relationship and starting to explore those parts. This can look like working one on one with me or bringing in one of my coaching assistants to work with you together. We can work together ranging anywhere from an hour by phone/video chat or in person, to a weekend immersion.
Though I personalize/individualize every session here is a menu of possible options during a session with me:
Having a safe space for both partners to talk about your (possibly taboo) desires/fantasies and how to get them met in a healthy/responsible way.
Private rope bondage lesson
Learning/experiencing female/g-spot ejaculation.
Hands on experience to learn skills (see below) as a dominant and the emotional work to build the confidence to step into that role.
Hands on experience of being dominated to explore your submissive side in a safe and contained way.
Creating a scene to use kink/BDSM as a tool for personal growth/self discovery
Possible skills to learn/experience:
Rope bondage
Rough play/physical manipulation
Biting/using teeth
Hair pulling (done right)
Spanking and other impact play
Choking/breath play (done safely)
Obedience training
Orgasm control
All the toys
Dirty talk and fantasy/role play
And most importantly: clear communication, negotiation, aftercare and debriefing scene/play time.
Be (pronoun Be) is passionate about the intersection of embodied movement/dance, sensuality/sexuality and kink/BDSM. Be loves creating safe(r) spaces for play, exploration, growth and healing as a means of becoming more fully who we are.
Be has been creating these spaces for the last 15 years in the Bay Area through classes and events, always pushing the envelope of what’s possible to explore. From a range of 2nd base events, Womxn in Charge, Bi/Pan Playful, Dripping Womxn and classes/playshops such as Intro to Kink, G-spot ejaculation, Contactsage, Acrosage, Aquaprov, Rope Dance and One Rope Play.
Be brings 20 years of experience as a bodyworker that shows up through an embodied calming/nurturing presence. Along with 8 years of Somatica training for a deeper understanding of sex, intimacy and relationships.